The Main Pic Theory

When you are considering a girl’s online profile, remember that the main photo depicts her looking the absolute BEST at ANY time in her recent past.

In other words, if her main pic is not pretty, you can bet your last coin that she looks much worse in person.  Girls are incredibly conscious of their appearance and will take great pains to have a photo which makes them look attractive.

So, bear that in mind.

Secondly, if her main photo has even a hint of her not taking care of herself, she is going to be an absolutely unhygienic, unkempt, smelly woman.  Some examples of such hints are:

  1. Bad hair-do
  2. Tired eyes with a hint of dark circles (probably a drinker)
  3. Crumpled or ill-fitting clothes
  4. Large sunglasses (she most likely has really ugly eyes)
  5. Hazy or unfocused photo
  6. A photo that does not show her neck, or has her making a funny face.  She is likely not pretty to look at and is trying to cover-up.
  7. Pimply skin.  Remember this is she at her best.  Her acne or some other condition is likely much worse and she chose the best photo available with the least amount of skin eruptions.
  8. Unsmiling photo.  If a girl cannot put up a smiling photo, you are likely dealing with a depressive woman who is probably in therapy or undergoing medication.
  9. The periphery.  If she has taken a photo in her bathroom, examine the items on display.  Evaluate if the bathroom looks spotless or dirty.  A dirty bathroom is a dead-giveaway of a slob.
  10. If it is a restaurant photo, examine what she is drinking or eating, and the condition of the table.

Once again, women are extremely visually-oriented when it comes to their own appearance and their surroundings.  If they post a photo that has any red flag at all, that is a bad omen.  If, for some weird reason, she chose a bad photo despite having better photos, that is an even more alarming red flag.


Sluts are only worthy of a pump and dump

Delusion (noun): a post-wall woman, one who has been ravaged by dozens or hundreds of cocks, expecting devotion and love from a good man.

Today’s women, brainwashed by rom-com-porn, want “romance”.  They want good, healthy love.  They want attention and listening skills.  They want emotional support.  They want financial support.  They want social status.  They want a man in their lives.

But only those men are capable of providing romance and chivalry and commitment who are good men.  In their prime, these women ignored these good men in favor of badboys and tattooed jocks.  During their twenties, these women never gave these men the time of day.  And after having sampled enough badboy cock, these women wonder if there is true love in this world.

We think not.  Not for these women.

A good man is capable of devotion, romance and love.  But only to a woman who offers her devotion, romance and love in return.  And who, moreover, is young and unravaged and comes without baggage.

If a single mom of 40 expects “love”, she is bound for frustration and despair.  Why should a good man offer his love to such a woman?  What does she have to offer him in return, we wonder.  Her virginity?  Her innocence?  Her femininity and future motherhood?  Her nurturing and supportive nature?  No.  No.  No.  No and a thousand times no.

All she offers is a used up body, a dried up womb, and a hardened heart.

All she is worthy of is a pump and dump.

It is a tragedy self-inflicted by these women.  Let no one shed one tear for these delusional harridans.

They have made their bed, and they shall now lie in it.

Twelve kinds of girls to avoid on is the most popular matrimonial website in India.  Compared to a newspaper matrimonial, it offers clear advantages.  You can see photos of the other person, you can see more details about them, and you can communicate and chat with them.

In India, dating websites have not been very popular but they are gaining currency now.  Apps like Tinder are used by some folks but many girls are afraid that someone they know might come across their profile on such short-term dating platforms.

We understand. is supposedly to find your future husband or wife, but there are many – both men and women – who are on this website with no intention of getting married.  If you wish to date a woman, it is quite OK to create a profile on this website and treat it as a way to meet women.  If you find a real gem, you may want to consider a steady relationship with her.

But most women on are quite weird and unfit for a relationship.  If you are just wanting to gain experience with different kinds of women, by all means go ahead.

The only cautionary note is to preserve all your communications and watch out for any indications that the woman is somehow too eager to get physical with you before even having met you.  It has happened that a woman on is just wanting to trap or blackmail you by accusing you of rape etc.

You obviously should read tips on how to create a good profile and how to build attraction via chatting and texting.  We will cover that aspect in another post.

But in this post, we offer some tips on which women to avoid if you are serious about finding a good girlfriend or wife.

  1. The very brief profile.  Don’t bother.  If she is not willing to put in some effort at writing about herself, she thinks of herself as a princess who has nothing to offer but is wanting to evaluate men falling over herself.
  2. The no photo.  She is ugly.  Having a password-protected photo or a photo visible on accept is OK, though.  Trust us, if she looked good, she would have a photo up there.
  3. The “u2”, “l8r”, “txt” and “wid” kind.  She is into too much texting and is an attention whore.  If a girl can’t bother to write a proper English sentence describing herself, don’t expect much from her.
  4. The “profile created by parents”.  If you want to marry someone with a good background, this may be OK.  But don’t expect to date this woman.  Be prepared to talk to her family and be humiliated when they ask you about your salary and prospects.
  5. The “no time wasters please”.  She has dated enough and now wants to trap a beta schlub.  And she is impatient to get hitched.  Be very cautious.  What she wants is for you to not evaluate or date her but just quickly agree to marrying her.
  6. The single moms.  You don’t want to be the one bringing up another man’s babies.  They are however, fine for dating.  But if there is even a hint that they have used some law against their ex-husbands, stay away.  They might trap you in a rape case “on the promise or marriage”.
  7. The “never married” post-wall women.  If she is 32+ and has never been married, rest assured that she has been through some relationships which didn’t work out.  She comes with emotional baggage.
  8. The “fatty face photos only” profile.  If she calls her body-type average but there is no fully-length photograph, she is most likely overweight or obese.  Don’t waste your time because when you finally meet her, you will be shocked.


  9. The “fun-loving”.  She is vacuous.  Has no interest in anything serious, doesn’t read books, has no culinary skills, and gets wasted often.  She is probably good for a fling but NEVER make the mistake of getting emotionally invested in her.  If she is fun-loving, you too have fun.

    A relevant definition of fun-loving from Urban Dictionary:

    “The most ridiculous, pointless, and redundant adjective that has ever existed. More specifically, it’s what a lot of uncreative and ignorant incorrigibles use in their personals ad when they can’t think of something to say that actually has meaning to it. The definition of fun, is something that is a source of enjoyment, amusement, or pleasure. Therefore, the fact that something fun is enjoyable or pleasurable is built-in to the very meaning of the word. Hence, it is completely redundant and illogical to say “fun-loving”. How else is someone going to feel about fun? Fun-hating? The very notion is contradictory at best, and ludicrous at worst.

    Oh my god! I’m such a fun-loving person! What an amazing revelation.”

  10. The “drink in hand” crowd.  She is probably a party-type who stays awake till morning and then sleeps till noon.  Again, maybe OK for short-term flings, but definitely not wife-material.
  11. The “hand on hip” pose.  This kind of girl watches too much of reality TV and knows all about celebrities and fashion trends.  She is usually insecure and high-maintenance.  Don’t spend a paisa on her but subtly neg her for her to come after you.  Again, not wife-material.  Not by a long shot.
  12. The “accept me as I am” crowd.  She very likely has a bitchy attitude and has really bad manners.  If someone is good, they don’t have to ask others to accept them.  They are accepted naturally.  This kind of woman doesn’t understand what relationships are: a process of adjustment and empathy.  She probably thinks a relationship is all about her.  More likely, she has been a slut and doesn’t want you to judge.


Revealing Attire is Sexual Provocation and Sexual Harassment

(Guest Post by James Bond)

Everywhere we see men being harassed by calculating and predatory women. Women using their sexuality to harm men, distracting men at work, occupying boys’ seats in schools and colleges, wearing clothing that is both sinful and criminal. A woman who reveals her body is guilty of sexual harassment.

Clothes are a form of communication. Policemen, preachers, punks, firemen, businessmen, and prostitutes; all dress a certain way to reveal who they are. Similarly, a girl who dresses in revealing attire is telling the world who she is. In the past, even prostitutes used to dress decently, but today girls’ sinful clothing is being promoted in the name of freedom and liberation. This is oppression in its true sense.

In this day and age, girls revealing their bodies has become the norm. Feminists are fighting for girls ‘rights’ to wear short, transparent, and skin-tight clothes. Girls with plunging necklines are also fighting for their rights, unaware that whenever they bend, they show everyone their ‘rights’.

Miniskirts, skimpy tops and revealing dresses are not a choice. They are advertised in movies, music videos, magazines, billboards, advertisements, etc. to the point where girls feel it is normal to dress in revealing attire. And they often do so to fit in. This is systematic brainwashing. Now, it has gone a step further. Nudity is being promoted with frenzy. In feminist rallies, women go nude, models are nude in fashion shows, PETA has nude protests, women are nude in magazines, nudity can be seen in art, movies, music videos, etc.

Body image issues are creeping up, where every girl has to have the perfect body because they have been told to wear revealing attire through constant advertising, and of course, you cannot wear skimpy clothes without a toned body. Tags of ’emancipation’ and ‘liberation’ are attached to it. The truth is, being semi-nude in public is not being progressive. It is being retarded. Only animals don’t wear clothes. That is because animals don’t have brains like humans do.

Teenage girls are even lining up for plastic surgery to redo themselves, and millions of dollars are being spent on it. This is the result of constant brainwashing. This is what a materialistic and hedonistic way of life has done to women.

Our schools, colleges, and offices are not spared from women’s lewdness either. Miniskirts are the norm in educational institutes, whereas transparent shirts and skirts are a part of office attire. Everywhere, men are being distracted by open displays of obscenity. A woman at the workplace is a distraction, in whose presence a man cannot do his best work. She is also responsible for increasing affairs in offices, and the breaking of homes due to illicit relationships. She is answerable to God on the day of judgement.

A girl is guilty of a heinous sin if she reveals any part of her body. She is an adulterer and a temptress, who lures man into sin. It is not a trivial matter for women to dress provocatively and ignite lust in men.

Ten Things We Learnt from PINK

  1. If you are a mentally disturbed lawyer who stares at people, you have supernatural powers to decide innocence of three party girls who are your neighbors.  Amitabh Bachhan’s character is a white knight who is a just waiting for a chance to save some women because he couldn’t save his own wife from a disease.
  2. Modern urban Indian women have no clue what counts as leading someone on.  Even western women will never go to someone’s home or hotel and have drinks because that counts as an invitation to sex.  But urban Indian women are too innocent to know this.  They find the men cool enough to go to their hotel with them and have drinks and crack dirty jokes, but suddenly find the men unattractive when they start getting physical.  And instead of just raising a hue and cry or running away or complaining to the hotel management, attempt to murder their date.
  3. Urbane Indian women have no clue that the police in India, despite the umpteen gender-biased laws in favor of women, are corrupt.  They have no hesitation in using a senior lawyer’s “connections” to lodge a complaint but are appalled at someone else using their connection.
  4. A retired lawyer in India, in his old age, finds it easy to figure out where a policewoman was on a certain day, and to produce photographs of the accused’s sister having a drink somewhere.
  5. Trials in India proceed at great speed.  All witnesses are available at all times.  Also, a judge in India pronounces judgment in two cases at the same time.  There is no punishment for perjury and lying, even by a police official, in the courtroom.
  6. An employer in India can fire a woman employee because of a random doctored image sent to his email account.
  7. Urban Indian women are quite promiscuous who openly dry their lingerie on the apartment terrace, but find it hard to tell a dirty joke in a courtroom.  Also, when asked about their relationship in the court, they can scream “It’s my personal matter” instead of answering the question properly.
  8. Traditional-looking men in India are all rapists as per Bollywood, and they should be taught that “No means No” even though Indian society, like any other traditional society entering a modern phase, expects modesty and coyness during gender interactions.  After all, modesty can be outraged only when there is modesty in a woman to begin with.  But no, women in India should be given full freedom to act as they please and to have police at their beck and call when their own behavior lands them in trouble.
  9. Urban Indian women are shocked to discover the condition of Indian police stations or jails, but they have no hesitation in filing false dowry or rape cases against unwitting men and their families.
  10. Indian sheeple lap up poorly-directed feminist films as fantastic and gives them high ratings on IMDB without understanding the complexities of social situations.

How Call Centers Encourage Sluttiness In Women

Slut (noun): A woman with the sexual morals of a man. A man who is popular among women is stud but a woman who is popular among men is slut.

Understanding the above is prerequisite for understanding this article. If you don’t agree with it, then I recommend you familiarize yourself with the socio-biological foundations of the sexual “double standard”. (Refer to the links at the end of the article.)

Modern women across the board are turning sluttier by the day, but the call center industry in India especially suffers from an epidemic of sluttiness. Below are some of the reasons for that.

High number of youngsters

Workforce in call centers largely comprises of young people of less than thirty years of age. This is because many of the call centers hire undergraduate college students and even dropouts. Owing to the high number of youngsters, atmosphere in call centers is much like a college campus. What only makes it worse than a college campus is the fact that the young dimwits are earning their own money which gives them the sense of independence to escape parental control and act out their basic nature. Young women with their own money, with independence that comes with it, exposed to young men – perfect conditions for playing out sluttiness.

Working at night

People working in call centers hate it when they are stigmatized for
working at night. But the stigma is not unfounded. It is easy to do illicit things when the world is quiet and there are fewer eyes watching you. Large number of people working in call centers, men as well as women, have moral values which are abysmal. When I see call center women smoking on a street outside the office, I can’t help but wonder if she would be doing it had there been daylight and bustle of the world around with possibility of some known relative running into her. And smoking is not the most shocking thing I see. The night provides favorable atmosphere for the basic nature to play out.

Lack of professionalism at workplace

Call centers lack professionalism at workplace, simply because the workforce comprises of dimwits. As I mentioned above, call centers have a high number of youngsters working for them who carry casual attitude towards work and life in general. They lack polished, civil manners. Young men and women in call centers, with boiling hormones, behave like they do on college campuses. There are fewer restraints, because professionalism is not expected nor demanded of them.

Relatively high income for the low level of intelligence and skills

Compared to traditional industries, intelligence and skills required for a call center job are nothing. And for that low level of intelligence and skills, the dimwits working in call centers are paid too well. For someone who is not even a graduate it is very easy to earn anywhere from 25 to 50 thousand rupees a month. The problem with putting so much money in the hands of someone who is a dumb fuck is that the money is not going to be used in a good way. Most women anyway do not shoulder responsibility of feeding their families. Majority of women working in call centers are young and don’t have families yet. Where do they put all that money then? Fashionable clothes, accessories and make up. Partying out and having fun. In short, on acting slutty.

Increasing number of women smoking and drinking

Call center jobs can be mentally exhausting, talking to all sorts of angry and frustrated callers. Not all call centers are into customer service, but talking to any type of people continually all day takes its toll. Be it due to the nature of work or the fact that in the dark of night the world isn’t watching (actually both) a lot of women working in call centers are smokers. The bad habits of smoking and alcoholism in call center women are perhaps the highest outside of glamour industry. People with bad habits influence others. The number of women falling prey to these influences is increasing by the day. It has already reached a level where it doesn’t shock one anymore, seeing women act like men.

Women dress like sluts

One wonders if the women in call centers come there to work or to take part in a fashion show. Everyone wants to dress like models. And why not? Makeup, accessories and fashionable clothes, that’s all they seem to be spending all their salaries on, since most women working in call centers don’t provide for their families. Reason is, there are (well, mostly) only three types of women working in call centers: Single, divorced, and those with fucked up marriages.

Fun culture is encouraged

In most of the call centers fun culture is encouraged. Frequent parties where people drink and act out their animal instincts is a norm. Combine the lack of professionalism, lack of intelligence in average call center worker, average age of a call center employee, with the amount of money they make, and one can see what such culture would lead to.

High number of call center women are living alone

A very high number of women working in call centers are living alone. The reason for this, I believe, is that in most traditional Indian families women are not allowed to work, much less work at night. Therefore, high number of women who are too liberal and have already separated from their families, or are willing to separate, work in call centers. The number of call center women living alone may be around 20%, but even that is very high. Women living alone are most likely sluts. And this is a big number to influence other women around them of their slutty ways of life.

Spoiling marriages and providing sexual options to women

Married people working in call centers have a fucked up life. A marriage in which the woman is working is anyway an uphill battle. Women working at night only worsens the situation. Extra marital affairs are rampant in call centers which ruins marriages. Hypergamy trumps, because the fact that a married woman has to work nights in a shitty industry as call centers means that she is likely married to a socially low-ranking man. Call centers provide such women with options to spice up their boring life.

Not all women working in call centers are slutty. But the number of slutty women is high enough for the parents of girls to think twice before allowing their daughters to work in a call center.

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Rape Through The Lenses Of Sexual Economics

Rape is robbery of sexual resource that a woman possesses. It is akin to a man getting robbed of wealth. Both are essentially taking by force what someone else has that one desires. Sex is a resource that women possess and men desire.

A somewhat effective (and not the only) way to reduce instances of rape would be to view it as robbery as described above and expect women to exercise the same caution that men are expected to exercise to guard their wealth.

Sex is a powerful resource that women possess. More powerful a resource than is wealth for men, and hence more tempting, for obvious reasons. Seen in terms of sexual economics in nature, the purpose of man’s existence is to attain this resource, and the purpose of woman’s existence is to give this resource to a worthy man. Everything else is only the instruments to the species’ biological purpose. That is theory of evolution which does not require proof. It is a fact of nature. Now, as in any system with economic forces there is propensity to cheat (short-circuit the moral way to attain what one desires) which in this case is to rob. We have people for whom money is a resource, and they rob money. Likewise, we have men for whom sex is a resource, and they would rape. It is a fact of society. Deny these facts of nature and society and it is the end of a meaningful discussion.

Try imagining a world where men roam around wearing diamonds and gold and conspicuously stuffing wads of cash in their pockets to show off their wealth or to give off vibe of powerfulness, and there are no robberies. Anyone with common sense would agree that it is a Utopian ideal. A woman is equivalent to a man with wads of dollar bills dangling out of his pockets. Because a woman’s bare body is already resourceful. A woman dressed to show skin and/or create sex appeal is all the more so. Both a man with wads of dollar bills and a woman have resources of value to others, some of whom would do anything to get them.

All would agree that women already show more skin than men. They wear skirts and sleeveless blouses even to work, whereas for men wearing shorts or sleeveless t-shirts to office is unprofessional. Where I work, I see women wearing body-tight trousers and cleavage showing tops, but for men wearing collarless t-shirt is against the HR policy! Shouldn’t it be the opposite? Men are not vulnerable if they show muscles by wearing clothes to exhibit them, whereas women are. No one is going to stare up men’s shorts, pass sexual comments, and certainly no one is going to rape them. As this was not enough of contradictions, our movies are selling sex, magazines are selling sex, music videos are selling sex. Bare skinned women are shown through every media one can name. Women are freely using their sexual resources to attain all sorts of ends in the society. It is like dangling bones to the dogs and expecting them to not advance and bite. A society where women want to exercise this kind of freedom can not expect that there should not be rape.

I have seen kids of modern generation publicly criticize and condemn their own parents for not giving their daughters the freedom to go out late at night while giving the same freedom to their sons, and those parents later admitting to their “flawed” thinking. Let me say this: Their thinking is anything but flawed. And I am sorry to see them succumb to the pressures. It is not sexist to say that women should not go out at an unsafe hour and in an unsafe place. They should not.

I am grossed out by the fake morality of modern women and the society that padestalizes them. I must say that at some level I sympathize with rapists and feel no sympathy for women. In normal circumstances I won’t sympathize with robbers, but in normal circumstances men showing off diamonds on them and getting robbed would admit that it was their mistake as well for carelessly putting themselves in the way of danger. Women of the day are not normal.

I urge intelligent people to view men and women from the lenses of sexual economics, then see the sexual dynamics at play to understand the issue in a more meaningful way.

Sexual Economics by Roy F. Baumeister

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