It is a misconception of staggering proportions that to woo a woman you have to show her love. That’s what beta males believe and that’s what you see peddled around in movies and in poetry.
The truth is: To woo a woman, you have to INSPIRE love. That’s what alpha males know.
If you SHOW love, women will know you are a beta. You can buy presents for her, be nice to her, agree to her vile tantrums, and so on. She will not fall in love with you because you are already in love with her and she (given her hypergamous nature) will think that she can do better than you.
If you expect to BE loved, women will treat you like a king. She will cook for you, be nice to you, give you blowjobs, and so on. Since you are not overtly in love with her yet (or there is some mystery about it), she will regard you as the prize.
Most men make the mistake of showing a woman their love and appreciation, in order to be loved in return. They make the mistake of giving her something and expecting the same thing in return.
That does not work in the sexual marketplace. In the sexual marketplace, women are constantly approached by men giving them attention and paying them compliments. If you do that too, you are one of them. She is not going to compliment you back. Never.
If instead, you signal to her that you find her attractive, but that you expect HER to seduce you, that’s what gets them the tingles. That’s what shows her that you are high value and worth pursuing.