Why do betas fail with women To understand this, let’s start with the basics of the sexual marketplace.
Male sexual desire is stronger than in the female. But so is the male survival skill, his martial and physical acumen, and his ability to provide. Hence, (A) the male wants to buy the female sex, and to sell his commitment and protection.
By a fundamental law of economics, (B) the more valuable something is in the sexual marketplace, the less available it is.
Couple these two statements (A) and (B), and voila, the mystery is unraveled. For a woman, to offer her sexuality cheaply marks her as sexually low-value. Whether she is being a slut because she is low-value, or whether she is seen as low-value because of her sluttiness doesn’t matter. In the sexual marketplace, both go hand in hand. And low-value in this case means: no man would want to commit to such a woman.
Similarly, for a man, to offer his commitment and protection cheaply marks him as sexually low-value. Traditionally, commitment and protection were offered by the woman’s kin or, after her marriage, by her husband. In the modern world, there are plenty of women who are no longer protected by their kin, are financially self-sufficient, and are single. For these women, commitment and protection translate into emotional and financial gratification/pleasure by their boyfriend or by her orbiters.
If a man is offering emotional and financial gratification to these women on the cheap (i.e. without any sexual favors from her in return), he is marking himself as low-value. As before, it doesn’t matter whether he is putting her on a pedestal because he is low-value, or whether he is seen as low-value because of his groveling. The fact is that he is offering the only thing he has to offer, his emotions and his time, for cheap. His low-value then translates into: no woman wants to have sex with him.
In short: a slut (a low-value woman) and a beta (a low-value man) are offering their side of the bargain for free. Hence, they are unattractive. Men will use sluts for sex and discard them. Women will use betas as emotional maxipads and discard them.
If you follow so far, then what is the lesson for you as a man? Do not give your time, attention, Facebook likes, greeting cards, gifts, flowers, to a woman unless she is providing you what you want (i.e. her sexual affection). And even then, don’t be too available or too eager.
She must win your attention by her femininity. If you offer your attention to her for free, then she will look for someone who is better than that: who values himself more.
Even if you are in a relationship, you must make it clear by your behavior that you will only be with her and provide her with your company if she is a pleasure to be with: if she offers you something that you want.
A man who debases himself for a woman, is soon debased by his woman as well.