Any society or culture which allows full license to female promiscuity and hypergamy does a disservice to its women, and makes them very, very unhappy. But once this licentiousness is in place, it is almost impossible to re-introduce sexual restrictions. For reasons that we will make clear, though women are supremely unhappy in today’s sexual market conditions, any hint that we should go back to traditional restrictions is vociferously and vehemently protested by exactly those women who are the most unhappy and dissatisfied with their relationships.
Now-a-days, the society allows a woman ten to twenty years of premarital sexual “exploration”. Given the dynamics of casual sex, it is open season for alphas. They are in hedonistic heaven, taking their pick from a wide array of women. Betas, however, more than ever, languish in involuntary celibacy or settle for infrequent sex with ugly or drunk women.
Most women in their ten-twenty year period of “fun years” will doubtless come across an alpha or two. The alpha will game them, provide them multiple orgasms, and having added her to their score of notches, move on.
These “alpha widows” now are damaged goods for any normal man. They will always compare their current man with the alpha who pumped and dumped them, and find their current man wanting. They will treat their current man with disdain and will continue to keep their eyes wandering for another alpha like the one they were briefly exposed to.
An alpha widow will not only be a bitch to her man and make him miserable and angry, but she will herself find life to be a pale shadow of what “it could have been”, and be depressed and unhappy.
It is clear that licentiousness has led to her discontentment. But if you suggest to her that perhaps traditional values (chastity before marriage, divorce only in extreme hardship, lack of easy abortion) should be brought back, she will go ballistic and regard you as her arch enemy. Why? Because you are dooming her to alpha widowhood. She wants to be free to fuck, seduce and possibly entrap an alpha again. She failed the last time, but how dare you restrain her from trying again?
Alphas will continue to pump and dump, and a delusional woman will continue to hope for an alpha who loves her and only her. A beta is no good to her, and an alpha will always be beyond her reach.
Mass media is only too happy to feed her delusion. All the romantic Mills-and-Boon trash, the chick-flicks, the magazines and talk-shows, continue to send her the message that she should trust her heart, and that true love (i.e., love of an alpha) will eventually come her way.
Women want to be free to be hypergamous: they want to be free to pursue their alpha. But there are only a few alphas in the real world. These women have tasted alpha cum, and are doomed to be unhappy.
A society which offers sexual freedom and choice to its women destroys their happiness.